A six-month system for fathers ready to be done with pornography — built around your specific marriage, your children, your work.
6,000+ men · 8 years walking with fathers · 80% pornography-free at six months
Independent, peer-reviewed academic research on what pornography is actually doing to the men who use it — and to the marriages around them.
of mainstream pornography scenes contain physical aggression — and 95% of the time, the targets show pleasure or a neutral response.
Bridges et al., Violence Against Women, 2010
Compulsive pornography users are at significantly higher risk of stress and depression than non-users.
Cooper et al., Sexuality on the Internet; Kafka, Principles & Practice of Sex Therapy, 2000
Spouses and committed partners who discover a partner's pornography use can show clinical signs of post-traumatic stress.
Steffens & Rennie, Sexual Addiction & Compulsivity, 2006
of women whose partners use pornography report moderate-to-high distress; three in four say it damages their self-esteem.
Bridges, Bergner & Hesson-McInnis, J. Sex & Marital Therapy, 2003
of internet users kept the time they spent on online sexual activity secret from their partners.
Cooper et al., J. Sex & Marital Therapy, 2002
Compulsive pornography use shows neurological patterns that closely resemble those of substance addiction.
Love et al., Behavioral Sciences, 2015
All statistics drawn from peer-reviewed academic research. Full citations available on request.
It is late. The house is asleep. You have already told yourself once tonight that you would not do it. The laptop is open. You know the path your hand is going to take before you take it.
It is morning. You catch your face in the mirror and look away. Your kids are at the kitchen table. They don't know. You hope they don't know. You wonder if some part of them already does.
It is a Tuesday. Your wife is across the room and you cannot say what feels far. You love her. She loves you. There is a quiet thing between you that neither of you names. You know what it is.
If any of this landed — keep reading.
From day one, your personal coach learns the things a system never could — your marriage, your kids' names, your work schedule, the two or three specific moments where you fall. Inside the first week, your 30/90/180-day plan is written for the man you actually are.
You meet weekly with a mentor who has finished this road. You check in daily with a real human — never a notification. You step into a private Brotherhood of 6,000+ anonymous fathers, always on, walking it with you.
The program ends. The access doesn't. Most men finish the core work inside six months — your team and the Brotherhood stay with you for life.
A structured, research-informed peer support method. Six months of work. A lifetime of access.
You're paired with a coach. You complete a confidential intake. Your 30/90/180-day plan is written for your marriage, your kids, your work schedule, and the two or three specific moments where you fall. No two plans are alike.
Daily human check-ins. Weekly coach session. Your first mentor call. Your environment is restructured around the plan. Most men experience their first 14–21 consecutive clean days inside this window.
Weekly mentor sessions with men who have finished this road. Small-group work. Identity-level change — what changes here is not just what you do, but who you are when no one is watching.
Maintenance rhythm. Brotherhood always on. Lifetime refresher access. Most men finish the core program in this window and stay in the Brotherhood for the long arc of fatherhood, marriage, and the seasons that will test them.
One decision. Become a member with a single one-time payment. You're inside the Brotherhood the moment you join — no waiting list, no screening call to clear.
Within 72 hours of joining, you're matched with your personal coach and your weekly small-group. Your private 30/90/180-day plan is written inside the first week.
Built around your specific triggers, schedule, and family. Weekly sessions. Daily check-ins. Concrete milestones at 30, 90, and 180 days.
Most men complete the core program inside six months. Your team and the Brotherhood stay with you for life.
You know what's coming — the late-night feeds, the exhaustion, the year your wife will need you most. You also know what happens to men who don't deal with this before fatherhood lands on them.
Men who start the work before the baby arrives finish their core program around the time their child reaches their first milestones. They are not the father who is hiding something from a toddler. They are the father who walked clean into the room.
I told myself for years it wasn't a problem. My wife knew. After six months, I'm a different father — not perfect, but present. My oldest told me, "You don't seem tired anymore, Dad." That broke me. In a good way.
I joined when my wife was four months pregnant. I didn't want to bring this into our home. Twelve months later my son is six months old and I'm the dad I wanted to be. I got to hand him a different inheritance.
I've tried apps. Accountability software. Men's groups. This was the first thing that worked because it wasn't just willpower — it was actual help. Three years clean now. I'm a different husband and a different dad.
Private therapy for this runs $150 to $200 per session, paid every week, for as long as you keep showing up. The Redeemyo membership is paid once.
$200 once. Yours for life. Your coach, your group, the Brotherhood, and lifetime check-ins — for as long as you ever need them.
If at any point in your first 30 days you decide you are not ready to quit, just email us. We refund every dollar — no questions, no awkward calls.
Because the work is meant to end. Most men complete the core method inside 6 months. You should be done — not paying for accountability software the rest of your life. The $200 covers the entire system plus lifetime backup access.
If at any point in your first 30 days you decide you are not ready to quit, just email us and we will refund the full $200. No questions, no awkward conversations. Your membership will be waiting when you come back.
More than 80% of our members are pornography-free within 6 months of joining, based on Redeemyo's internal member tracking. The first 90 days are the hardest. After that, life on the other side becomes the default.
No. You can sign up under any name you want. We do not bill insurance, do not work with employers, and do not share information with anyone for any reason. Inside the Brotherhood, members use chosen names — never real ones.
No. Redeemyo is a structured peer-support and coaching membership. We are not a healthcare provider, we do not diagnose or treat any condition, and we do not bill insurance. The work is informed by the public research on the harms of pornography, but it is delivered by trained coaches and mentors — not clinicians.
Yes. Many of our members would not describe themselves as addicted but know that pornography is taking something from their marriage, their fatherhood, or their self-respect. You don't have to accept any label to begin.
Men 18 and older who reside in the United States, who are fathers or are expecting a child. We do not currently serve members outside the US.
Setbacks are part of recovery — they are not failure, and they don't end your membership. You'll have a written plan for what to do if one happens, and your team will help you understand what it was and what to do next.
The moment you join, you're a member. Most men are matched with their coach and their weekly small-group within 72 hours, and their private 30/90/180-day plan is written inside the first week.